What you should know before seeing a medium
If you are grieving a loss and hoping to connect with a loved one on the other side through a medium, I suggest several things to keep in mind. First is to "review your current state of grief." If you're still stuck in the anger or depression stage of grieving, and find yourself highly emotional and without any real acceptance of what has occurred, you may need to get onto more solid ground before a loved one will come through to you in a session — or before a session can bring much solace.
Particularly, right after a loss we are in shock and dismay. Even if we knew it was coming, it’s still a loss. We need to take into account our relationship with that person or even animal. Seeing every relationship is unique, we can’t just run to the nearest person hoping to hear from your loved ones.
You need to make sure you pick the "right" person for the job. Again, you'll want a medium, not a psychic — and if it's your first time seeing one, you likely need a one-on-one session rather than taking part in a group session. Before your session please focus on the loved one you're missing in order to help you center yourself in their energy and memory. A lot of clients have brought a momentum with them. It’s not necessary but it could be helpful.
When you arrive, try to do so with an "open mind and low expectations." If you have a specific map of how you want the session to play out, you may be disappointed — so, allow yourself to be pleasantly surprised and drawn into the experience.
Whatever research you can do to pick the right medium, do so. Most often people come to me via word of mouth. Ask the people you trust who they’ve worked with.
It’s advisable to write down your "initial thoughts and impressions" right after the session ends, rather than waiting. This will allow you to have something concrete to revisit as you continue to process what happened during the session.
Ask questions. Bring notes if you need to.
Most of all, be open. Remember, it’s not always something that can be controlled over who comes through. You may have to hear from people that need to desperately reach you before you hear from the person you want to. Mediumship is always a never ending blessing, surprise and mystery. It’s something to cherish and respect.
Lots of love,
Michelle
Look for my new year end predictions post that I’ll be sharing soon and remember every week a new schedule is posted to choose a session time
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